Dealing with Rejections and Surviving a Breakup
Have you experienced that heartbreak when everyone rejects you before prom night, and you are all alone? Rejections are real, even the cutest couples break up, and sometimes, there is no happy ending to love stories.
Your friends will try to cheer you up, and there will be gossiping about the person who rejected you – but breakups are painful. However, that is not the end of the world either. It is okay to be frustrated and cry for the broken relationship, but you need to deal with it sooner than later. If you agree that there are better things in life than moan about the breakup, do keep reading.
Do something you love
What is your passion? What is it you love to do irrespective of whether someone loves you or not? Is it eating oily food or traveling solo or getting a massage or go shopping – find whatever works to give you instant happiness? The objective here is to keep your mind engaged.
Don’t text your ex
You will have the terrible inclination to text your ex to know how he/she is doing or what they are up to. DON’T! You should control your impulse and sit back tight because texting back will mean further agony. You might get insulted for trying to contact your ex and that is ugly. Don’t let the self-pride fall for a person who has already rejected you. Remember, there are plenty of other fishes in the sea.
Binge watch a TV series
There is nothing better to deal with rejections and breakups than an entertaining TV series. With so many TV streaming sites available, you won’t have a problem finding a good TV series of the genre you prefer. Be it horror or thriller or comedy, sit back, relax, take a bowl of popcorn, and enjoy.
Try online dating
When there are plenty of other fishes available in the sea, why not check them out? Surviving a breakup isn’t about the idea that falling in love is a bad idea. You should treat it as a failed attempt and try again. Online dating has become immensely popular. With websites like LoveSita helping to find suitable partners, you can try finding yours too. After all, if you don’t check a few chairs, how will you understand which one is suitable for your house?
Don’t lose hope
The last thing you would like to do is lose hope on love. No one said that a breakup is easy and you should forget it in a day. But that shouldn’t become a barrier to making you fall for a person again. Rejections and breakups are common. Millions face rejections, but it’s not the end of the road. You need to love yourself first before prioritizing another person in your life. Self-respect and self-love will help cope with breakups. However, be hopeful that there is someone out there who will love you irrespective of all the problems in your life.
So, sulk in, cry, lock yourself in your room – but don’t let someone get the better of you because they were in a position to reject. Follow the above tips and learn to look at the brighter things in life.