Would You Be My Valentine? How To Make It Happen?
Would You Be My Valentine? How To Make It Happen?. Sitting on my couch scrambling my head thinking how to ask a guy to be my valentine? We all have that question once in a lifetime. Especially when a guy is not making the first move. So what do you do?
The day that is so materialized and love is sold on the shelves in a grocery store. You can get roses and chocolates if its a girl, but how to ask a guy to be your valentine? Sounds simple? Just walk up to the man and ask him would you be my Valentine? The older you get the harder it becomes to figure out how to ask a guy out. Would he even say yes? How do you prepare for a rejection? When there is a possibility for both yes and no. But if you know there is chemistry and the man has laid eyes on you? Then it is worth taking the risk.
“True love is taking the risk that it won’t be a happily-ever-after. True love is joining hands with the man who loves who you are and saying, I am not afraid to believe in you. Love is not something you protect. It is something you risk”
Tips to ask a guy to be your Valentine… Take some risks because love is about risk…
Send a text: You are in luck if you have his cell phone number. A simple text can do magic. If the man has laid eyes on you? There are chances he would say yes. It is always worth taking the chance if you are in love with this man. Maybe start with a quote. Life is much more easy in the world of the internet. You could find love quotes online. Here are some quotes you could use to start the conversation.
“Of course I’ll hurt you. Of course, you’ll hurt me. Of course, we will hurt each other. But this is the very condition of existence. To become spring means accepting the risk of winter. To become the presence means accepting the risk of absence”.
By Antoine De Saint
Shout Out On A Radio: The most amazing thing is to make a request for a song on the radio for your love. You could call your local radio station and ask them to play a song for the man you are in love with or even send a shout out for him.
Ask him out for a pub: Depending on how close you are? You could ask your man to join in a local pub. To avoid any sort of awkward situation? You could invite a bunch so he doesn’t feel he is the only one who is invited. It could be just a normal social gathering of friends.
Slip A note: Is he your classmate? Your coworker? Or a gym buddy? You could slip a secret note of love under his desk, or in his bag. Surprises are always good and then you could also maintain the mystery and see where it goes?
Food: Men love food. Some beliefs say the way to man’s heart is through his stomach. How about baking something special for this man in your life to get all his attention? You could bake cookies in a heart shape? You could also invite him to have a dinner with you in your favorite restaurant.
Love is mysterious and you will never know where you will find it. It could be in a club under the bright light in the dark or in some ugly looking warehouse, or in a high-end office, maybe sitting on the bus. But one thing is for sure… if you do find love? Don’t let it go. It is always worth taking a risk for someone special. Better regretting a few years later…. what if I would have asked him out?