Actress Shubhaavi Choksey is considered as an icon not just in the world of acting but in the world of fashion too! The starlet, who’s done all iconic shows till date has left an everlasting impression on all her fans owing to her brilliant performances in the shows she has done in the past. In an exclusive interview on the occasion of mothers day, the Bade Acche Lagte Hai 2 star talks about how the motherhood phase has changed her drastically and how she has become a new person altogether.
Firstly, Talking about her mother’s role in her life, Shubhaavi Choksey says
“My mother is that pillar in my life who stands tall and strong till eternity. Her optimism is epitome of my success and my being. Along with my father she is the foundation of who I and and what I am today not only professionally but personally too. My life holds importance mainly because she gave birth to me”
Secondly, she also spoke about how her mother had a crucial role to play in her formative years. Talking about the same, She says
“The one thing that I vividly remember her saying repeatedly is that ‘Always wake up with a smile Shubi’ on a normal day it was great to hear that but whenever I was stressed (especially during my exams) I could never do that . one day I snapped at her and she still went onto say the same thing. I will never forget that day, as it was the last day I ever did that and the first day that I truly started believing in waking up with a smile. Now that I am a Mother myself I have been inculcating the same statement to my son”
She also recalled how her mother’s advices have saved her from situations and getting along with the wrong set of people. She says
“There are many such incidents though the one thing that she has saved me time and again is the Choice of people in my life, Be it friends or my life partner, she has never been dominating or a strict mother but she has a beautiful and unique way of explaining me characteristics about people which in turn has Hightened my EQ and my ability to understand people more. So I guess she keeps saving me by having taught me to guide myself always”
Lastly, the actress concluded by saying how her perspective towards life has changed after becoming a mother herself. She says
“Before becoming a mother my level of patience was zilch, that has changed drastically. My ability to teach, not only my child but myself too has increased ten folds with motherhood. The quality to unconditionally love someone was discovered only after I gave birth to my child. Do not submerge yourself so much in motherhood that your child feels claustrophobic. Do not feel guilty, always remember you are a woman and you have needs too. Do not compare your child or yourself with others because each and everyone is truly different. Grow with your child, Learn again with them, Have an open mind and heart to truly understand your child”
On the professional front, Shubhaavi Choksey was last seen in Bade Acche Lagte Hai 2 as Nandini Kapoor!